LOST A FRIEND

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Funny thing \"life\" innit? You never know what it\'s gonna throw your way or when it\'s gonna throw it.

When I started work, I was 17. Got to know a lad who was a year older than me and had been there for a year prior to me starting. We\'ve both worked at the same place all our working lives - grew from boys to men, you could say. Been mates through his divorce, my marriage, birth of both my kids, his remarriage, birth of his son...27 years we were friends.

Always the sporty type, football, squash, badminton, running - still arranging the twice weekly 5-a-side lunch time football up until 6 weeks ago, when he was diagnosed with in-operable cancer of both the pancreas and liver. He was told it was a particularly invasive form of cancer and that treatment would be futile.

Bill died at the weekend.

Dunno why I\'m posting this - you\'re probably wondering \"what\'s all this got to do with NESA\"? Absolutely nothing ! I suppose I just had to write it down for my own sake.

I couldn\'t even bring myself to tell my wife until today.






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SORRY TO HEAR THAT TONY.
He obviously lived life to the full but it just shows that you do not know when your number will be called.
Kind regards and condolences. Jason

[Edited on 26/7/2004 by jason]
 
Terribe news Tony,so sorry for you and his family.Lifes just not fair at times......................
Its good to talk m8
 
So sorry to hear about your loss Tony. I know how you are feeling. When I joined the Alnwick Sea Anglers Club 3 years ago I wasn\'t driving and got a regular lift with me cousin but on a couple of occasions he didn\'t fish so I had to arrange transport. Asked one of the lads in the club who said \"no bother\". When we got back from the session we were sitting in the car just chatting and he told me he\'d been diagonsed with skin cancer a few years previous but had the all clear for a couple of years. Last year he had a pain in his back and when he went to the doctors was told he had a secondary cancer in his spine. He went thru all his treatment last year and didn\'t fish the club but when I saw him earlier on this year he said he was itching to get back.
He died last month aged just 40, left a wife and 2 kids.
Isn\'t life Cruel to those who are genuinely nice people.
 
sorry to hear it tony , i know what you are going through , my mate was diagnosed 3 weeks ago , inoperable but having chemo treatment .
 
Sorry to hear that Tony,I lost a mate at 17 years old with cancer.It doesnt discriminate..live your life as each day is your last.And from that life is cruel sometimes,but life goes on.Condolences to the family and freinds.
 
Many thanks for all the above.

He was a very well liked lad and it has affected many people, especially the the suddenness and seemingly total unjustness of it all.
 
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